* Fix anonymous access to outbox not being cached by the reverse proxy

Up until now, anonymous access to outbox was marked as public, but with a
0 duration for caching, which means remote proxies would only serve from cache
when the server was completely overwhelmed.

Changed that cache duration to one minute, so that repeated anonymous access
to one account's outbox can be appropriately cached.

Also added `Signature` to the `Vary` header in case a page is requested, so
that authenticated fetches are never served from cache (which only contains
public toots).

* Remove Vary: Accept header from webfinger controller

Indeed, we have stopped returning xrd, and only ever return jrd, so the
Accept request header does not matter anymore.

* Cache negative webfinger hits for 3 minutes

Fixes #13757

Fix #11453

* Make host_meta/webfinger replies cacheable (fixes #6100)

Drop common code for handling users and sessions as webfinger queries
are very basic, public APIs.

Also explicitly mark results as cacheable with “expires_in”.

* Add “Vary: Accept” header for caching since content-negociation is used

* Remove rabl dependency

* Replicate old Oj configuration

This fixes #2375.

This change includes:

- Improve the spec coverage for incoming request to the webfinger action
- For requests without an accept header (ie, what a browser might look like),
  return a JSON response.
- For requests with an explicit format of xml or json, return that format.
- For requests using an accept header, return that format.

Also adds failing spec showing webfinger does not return xml, which covers the
issue described in: https://github.com/tootsuite/mastodon/issues/1983

* Add request spec for host meta route returning xml

* Add routing spec for xrd routes

* Update well-known routes

* Move webfinger and host-meta actions to their own controllers