Also improve efficiency of the mastodon:maintenance:add_static_avatars task

Create MediaAttachment but without actual file download when domain is blocked with reject_media set to true
Clean up old media files when creating a new domain block with reject_media set to true
Return remote_url in media attachments API if local file is not present
Undo domain block action in admin UI
Ability to enable reject_media from admin UI

for avatars/headers, resize avatars down to 120x120 instead of 300x300. Set cache headers on S3 stuff, also
make it private (aka only accessible via expiring links to prevent hotlinking)